Expressing love.........

>Words of affirmation
While speaking positively in all respects engenders loving feelings in those most attuned to words of affirmation, harsh or condemning words will have the opposite effect, sometimes causing deep emotional wounds that may never be fully forgotten. Because words can have such profound impact, the most important thing is to be positive instead of judgmental in what you say. Learn to praise people's admirable qualities and worthy efforts, and replace criticism with constructive advice if it's warranted.


>Quality time
Those who prefer quality time want to do things together. Take notice of their preferred activities, and try to initiate some time together in doing those things. Engage in quality conversation. Go hiking. Play games. Plan and work together. Whatever you do, spend time with them, not just near them. Giving them your attention is what is most important.


>Receiving gifts
Give gifts. Objects can be emblems of one's love, as tangible, visual reminders. They don't have to be expensive or long-lasting; home-made gifts and even temporary things like flowers and food can be very effective displays of affection. Just be sure that you don't rely too much on past gifts to convey evidence of your love for the person; give often.


>Acts of service
Perform acts of service. Parents often ask it of their children, and husbands and wives ask it of each other, but service can be a lot more meaningful to some people. Cleaning around the house, preparing meals, doing laundry, yardwork, and various other chores can be a very loving expression to someone. Look for ways to help your loved ones with tasks that will help ease their physical, mental, or emotional burdens. Your service may be especially appreciated when it's unexpected.


>Physical touch
This can be as simple as a squeeze of his hand,  a hand laid on my arm as he walks up behind me while I’m washing dishes,  holding hands while we walk, sitting close while watching a movie, things like that.


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Truth about being born a Manglik

Personally speaking, I had never even heard the term “Manglik” before Aishwarya Rai married Abhishek Bacchan. Reportedly a Manglik, the tabloids and TV channels reported about how Aishwarya symbolically married a peepal tree first before tying the knot with Abhishek, to nullify the bad luck of being manglik.
Regardless of whether Ash married a tree or not, there is just too much hype surrounding the Manglik bride.
Here is the truth you need to know about being born a Manglik.
'Manglik'? So What?
First and foremost, There is no research and scientific proof to say that unmatched Manglik couples are less happy than matched ones.
Having said that, one has to remember that astrology is based on the shastras which have been passed from generation to generation through tradition.
Many Hindus believe that if you are born under the Manglik star or the Mangal Dosh, there will be serious problems in your married life. In fact sometimes Hindu priests say that you could have a divorce or even worse, your husband may die.
Knowing Manglik
A Manglik is associated with the planet Mars. Mars represents temperament and temper. It is an aggressive planet. If placed in specific areas in birth chart you could be aggressive and violent and that could possibly lead to marital discord.
That is how the Manglik theory came into being.
Those who believe in Manglik believe that the compatibility between the boy and girl is said to be marred slightly because of the Manglik effect.
The Manglik is determined on your horoscope and your horoscope is based on the date, year, time and place of your birth.
The time of your birth depends completely on what your family is told by the hospital when you were born. It is important to know that the time given by the hospital may not always be correct.
Manglik Myths
With so much importance given to whether a woman is a Manglik or not, there are quite a few false beliefs as well. Here are some of the most common ones:
1) Marry a Tree and then Your Husband
The priests usually tell you to do this because all the alleged problems that are supposed to be attached to the marriage begin and end with the marriage to the tree.
So when you marry your real husband, it is actually your second marriage without the supposed problems in your first marriage.
2) Either Your Husband or Someone Close to him will Die
This is another belief that is completely untrue. Neither your husband nor anyone close to him will die just because you are a Manglik.
3) The Marriage Will End in Divorce
The success of your marriage depends on how much you and your husband put into the marriage. You being a Manglik does not determine anything.

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Power of Arranged Marriage with Bollywood Movie

Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam

Sanjay Leela Bhansali’s Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam went on to become a cult hit. The movie shows that an arranged marriage can go on to become so strong that it can overpower anything. This story truly depicts that desire may rule the heart, but it is true love that lights up the soul. It can make love bloom between two completely opposite people too.

article by : Meenu Bahuguna
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How To Regain Trust

• Trust is easily lost and extremely hard to regain. If you get it back, it will not be the same level of trust as you had at the beginning.
• An apology where you accept the blame is essential. Don’t try to spread it around and don’t try to justify your actions. Not accepting the blame will weaken your apology or will turn it into something else.
• Be sincere.
• Regaining trust won’t happen overnight. It will require a lot of time.
• You can use the principle of reciprocity to help you out. People tend to do to you what you do to them. So if you are totally trusting with your partner, he or she may start trusting you.
• Remember that your partner will be far less forgiving should you violate his or her trust again.